It could be, but the more likely reason is poor instruction. You should NEVER be put in a situation you can't handle. You should learn bit by bit. Professional instructors are usually good at this but not all.

There are very few really good instructors.

Advice -- be patient with yourself. Master one skill (e.g. smooth braking, heavy braking, gentle braking) before going on to the next.

I am a 37 year old woman who is having a very difficult time learning to drive. I took the road test twice and failed miserably. Could it be that some people just are not able to master this skill.

I am really afraid to start drivers training in a few months and I dont know why. People say it is like riding a bike, but cares are bigger, there is more to remember, and there are more cars on the road. I need to start but, I just need help relizing that it isnt that bad...
Please Help!

Jane,

driving is something you master bit by bit. For example: setting up, starting the engine, moving away, stopping, switching off - this exercise has just about all the elements of driving. If you can do this flawlessly - that is correct procedure, checking traffic, signaling, accelerating away, then checking, signaling again, slowing and stopping - without "losing points" (such as for failing to signal or check or using bad timing) then you are ready to take on the next stage (making turns, dealing with traffic, etc.).

If you get to a complicated stage (such as left turns in traffic) and you feel confused or lack confidence, then you have not acquired all the "tools" (skills and techniques) you need for that job.

Each lesson should be clear and with well set objectives. You should feel a sense of progress at the end of each one, whether it's an intensive course or not.

If this is not happening you do not have a good instructor.

All the elements of driving are simple in themselves and if there is one you feel you simply can not master then you should see a specialist who can determine what the problem is.

The most common problem for people who have difficulty learning to drive is poor instruction. Some instructors are even quite destructive in that they can undermine your confidence in yourself.

I am taking an intensive driving course and today was my third day of 4 hour lessons. I took a test and failed on nerves 7 years ago, so it is a while since I last drove! At the moment I am feeling really fed up, it feels like I am never going to pass the test, I just cant seem to master anything. They guy teaching is so different to my last instructor and teaches so differently. I don't know if anyone else has done an intensive course and ever felt the same way? If I was paying for this rather than my Dad, I think I would be giving in! can anyone tell me how many hours it took before things began to come together?

Thanks guys, the posts have really been helpful. I am off to my driving lesson in 30 minutes and I feel more confindent after reading about other people's experiences. Its not easy, but I am determined to learn.

Thanks Walter H, ur advice is really useful.

hi, I am going to schedule one day to take road test. I don't know which center is better near Pittsburgh which has nicer instructor? I'll appreciate so much if any recommendation!

Amy

Anna, don't give up after just 16 hours. My bet is you need a better instructor. Could it be your instructor is
a) using tests as part of your training
b) not able to judge when you're ready.
c) just not a good instructor

Anna, 16 hours of driving lessons doesn't seem like enough to try even one driving test, never mind three. If you have not driven much more than the 16 hours then you should be taking perhaps another 16 lessons before trying a test.

I suspect your instructor is not very good!

50 hours is more like a good preparation time.

Im 25 iI had about 16 hours of lessons and took the test 3 times already and failed all of em. I cant do it anymore.
Im so nervous and I turn too much and I go too slow. HELP

arthur

the plateau is normal. You learn something new and then you have to incorporate it with all the other stuff. After a breakthrough a period of confusion and adjustment is part of the learning process.

Just relax and let it come to you.

Also, if you read this article it will help
http://www.drivers.com/article/218/

Been taking lesson for 4 month. I seem to progress really fast and the plateau. I get really nervous in busy traffic situations and small lanes. I have trouble knowing what to do at intersections. I need to get my liscence soon but it feels impossible. I take lessons but I do not have access to a car otherwise. Any suggestions?

I had my permit and afriend gave me a car. I had my permit and he did have his license ,he said I can drive in the day time, but not at night. I just got into the car and started driving. my friend told me how good iwas doing I really feltproud. so if you just believe in yourself and is with someone that has confidence to build your faith you can do it too. I think that family makes you nervous, so make sure the person you learn with is calm and give you confidence. Thats thier purpose and maybe paying for. just do not take any more lessons form these people. I have a friend that taught his self to drive and read all the street signs all by his self from africa so he could drive cab. he needed money despertly!!!

I'm 42 and have always been afraid to drive. I've never had a license but I'd really like to learn to drive as I know its now or never... What's the best way to go about learning?? I've taken the written test and passed with flying colors and have had 3 permits which have all expired...

I was in a emptie (Well nearly emtie) carpark and it was my first lesson so i cant realy expect much

Charlie, about stalling. Try this --

If you are learning on a manual shift you should be able to let the clutch up and move the car away without using the gas pedal. That gives you a feel for what the clutch is all about.

Once you can do this, then try it in second gear, or even third - with NO gas.

Don't let anyone tell you it's impossible, and don't believe it kills the clutch. What kills the clutch is not understand it and engaging it the wrong way time after time.

I've used this with thousands of student drivers and they have NEVER wrecked a clutch.

Once you understand this principle you won't stall as long as you give your engine as much gas as it needs to accelerate.

CHECK HERE FOR MORE
http://www.drivers.com/article/909/

Hiya I'm 17 and i've started driving a couple of weeks ago my first instructor let me down so my mum took me out every night in a empty car park and i'm learning the basics can't get hold of brake and clutch keep stalling. tomorrow im going out with another instuctor to go on the open road the only worry i have is the other cars and stalling but recently ive been feeling like i can't do this and i'm not in the mood but i have too cause my mum is counting on me. any thoughts on what to do next so confused ?????

Rudy, if you have problems staying centered in the lanes you should not be dealing with traffic. You're trying to progress too fast! Try to find quieter roads so you're not so nervous.

The nervousness always comes from being overloaded. It's the instructor's job to prevent that but you have to let your instructor know about it by giving feedback about how you feel about things.

Had my first lesson today and even though the car im using is a auto (Dad wants me to learn with manule later) im shaking so badly. im having problimes with watching for other cars and staying centered in the lanes (Im hoples at reversing strait) My dad did say im doing way better than the first 10 mins but trying to reverse, watching for people and driving a semi powerfull car is all very hard. note the car is a chariat that can get up to 200k/h

ten lessons isn't so much. got to be patient. However, here's a tip: think what you want your car to do and your natural coordination will tend to help you make it happen.

On the other hand, you have to be comfortable with each part of the task -- using brake, accelerator pedals, steering, finding instuments and other controls.

Lots of my students got into trouble because they wanted to go on to get into more advanced road and traffic situations before being completely happy about the basics.

ive had ten lessons and i just cant seem too get it....its makes me angry

I just started learning to drive am on my second lessons little bit nervous ready to gave up already it sees like u have to do so much in an hour havent mastered my turns as yet help.

I've had my permit for almost 6 months. I can take my drivers test in 2 weeks, but I know I'm not ready. My parents refuse to get me a car, so I'm stuck driving either my dad's truck or my mom's SUV. I'm not very good in either one; I can't seem to judge distances and have trouble guiding such large vehicles. (I'm pretty short.) I doubt I'll get a car very soon, so does anyone have any tips for learning to drive in larger vehicles?

Also, I can't seem to communicate with my parents when it comes to driving. Either they yell at me for doing everything wrong, or they don't tell me anything at all. I'm never sure what I'm doing right. I don't even know how to park properly, because no one will teach me. Anyone have any advice on how to learn to park? Or maybe on just how to learn to drive, period? =)

I am 32 years old and last year I took 20 lessons but was not confident. And I stopped. I was feeling ashamed as most of my friends learnt it in not more than 12 lessons.
I realised there are three things that are very important. Firstly, you need to observe the environment like the signal, cars around and the route. Secondly, be alert and take quick decisions. Finally keep your mind calm.

I am planning to restart it. I not sure how am I gonna go this time.

i've been learning driving for the last 1 year, i still have problem in changing lanes in heavy traffic, i'm so depearate to get the license. my kid will start school from next year and i have to get the lice by next year.
if somebody has tips for this ,please help me.

Here's a tip from a driving instructor for both Joy and Bryn - Steering is mainly about 'look where you want to go'. In other words you aim with your eyes, then your hands will tend to do the right thing. However, you need to get the feel for how much steering it takes to go around a turn. Most beginners, in fact most people, tend to steer too much. You've got to be patient. Go slower into the turn and then do just enough steering to get around.

That takes practice. Many very experienced drivers don't do it well.

About steering when reversing - one easy rule: Look where you want to go and then steer that way. It's the same as going forward!

And Bryn is right. It takes patience.

One more thing Joy. For years I taught manual shift driving as well as automatic. There were lots of people who gave up on gearshift thinking automatic would solve their attention -dividing problem with hands and feet. It didn't.

It's EXTREMELY IMPORTANT in driving to be able to do this so you need to develop some parking lot exercises to help.

Many drivers get their license without fully mastering this and they're dangerous!

I completely understand your problems with steering, Joy. I'm 17 and have been driving since November (had about 22 hours on the road roughly). On the technical side of things like changing gears, balancing feet on hill, etc. i'm alright, but my steering is poor to say the least. Rather than move the wheel with big controlled turns, i always end up dong these short, shuffling rushed movements and struggling to make a tur without getting out of position.
I am always worried about making a tur too sharply. On top of that, my judgement of traffic situations and and road positioning isn't always the greatest. But reading all the postings on here has really been great because now i know we've all got our own weak points, learning paces and strengths.
And for anyone who is particularly struggling with something.... just keep going at it. I used to find approaching junctions impossible, and hill starts, and loads of other things. I just tried and tried and tried and now 'm fine with allof those things and just crap with steering and judgement lol ;)

I'm 39 and learning to drive, I've tried driving when I was younger but failed a couple of times coz I'm too nervous and can't get the hang of shifting gears and controlling the steering wheel at the same time. I am now learning to drive automatic, it's much easier but still I have a lot of difficulty in backing the car, can you give me some tips? I feel like stupid not knowing how to back properly and where and when to turn the steering wheel to the correct direction. Please help....

any tips on how you should go about making tight turns should you accerlerate into it or turn slowly my biggest problem is that making turns

I am sooo nervous driving. I have trouble keeping a steady spped, turning, signals... pretty much everything. I did take a lesson.. which was no help. My driving instructor was getting fed up with me because I couldnt turn properly. I know I need to get my licence. Its so scary

Best of luck with your lessons. Don't worry about nerves. Calming your nerves and putting you in control is your instructor's job. Once you see that each part of the task in manageable you will feel better.

However, if your instructor can't calm your nerves then get another instructor. This is a professional instructor's key skill.

well, i will start my driving lessons next week with a new instructor but i have been a bit worrie that my nerves doesn't ruin anything i want to control my nerves, fell more confidente, concentrate and focus in my driving but it is importante that i relax. how can i control my nerves..

Well, I am 42 yrs old, Spanish, who has been living here for over a decade, and I am sick of waiting for the bus, train..etc. I should have done yrs ago. But...I did not do it. I have been studing the theory for some time over years. However I never made my mind to hire an instructor. Now it is the time, enroll in a theory class and hire an instructor. ..I think I am a bit old, and in the UK drive in opposite direction, which is very confusing...I have to be brave....Ole...

My Driving is coming along,after nearly giving up,I only have a few things to iron out and I should be ready for my test.
I have a lesson tommorrow ,hope it goes well ,I have had so many awful lessons it's like a roller coaster,but my nerves are under control and I feel more confident.

Hollie:

A big part of the driving instructor’s job is to is to break down the task into bits that can be taught and mastered before going on the next bit. That’s where the ‘amateur’ instructors have problems. They don’t know how to do this. (sometimes the professionals are not so good at it either, but at least they have dual controls.)

An amateur instructor can often put you in trouble without realizing it.

Family members and friends tend to have ‘relationship’ problems. Other emotions creep in and interfere with instruction.

Overall, it’s is well known amongst professional driving instructors that learning from family members very often works out badly. The alternative is to get a carefully chosen friend to help out, but this has its problems too. You really have to control where lessons take place and what the lesson covers. DON’T JUST DRIVE AROUND. Plan your lessons.

The online booklet Learning to Drive: a Guide for Parents has lots of good hints on this and advice from very experienced and professional driving instructors. Check it out.

Whoops! That was me above.

The cost of attending one is way too much for us right now. Even if they'd like the idea of me attending one, the chances of me going because of money aren't very likely. So I don't know what to do in regards of that.

Hollie
Maybe you can talk your family into letting you attend a driving school. Most schools and places like community colleges offer a driving school. That's what I did and I felt much more comfortable behind the wheel. Learning from my family was too stressful!

I've never had an official instructor while learning how to drive before. I'm currently seventeen years old, and have my learner's permit, and find that I'm wishing more and more that I was actually with an actual instructor than driving with my family. I've driven, thus far, with my father and brother (who is over 21), and find that driving with my brother is a lot more comfortable than driving with my dad. My dad constantly gets very stern (or more) with me over little things, and it constantly messes with my psyche. My brother, however, is much more calm and cool, and explains very softly what I did wrong, and could use working on, and even the first time or two I accidentally hit the accelerator over the brake, he never panicked badly, and just laughed it off. Made me feel a lot less nervous.

What's worse is, when driving with my dad, it feels like he's rushing me to get my lisence, not taking into consideration that people learn more slowly than others. He has actually SET a date for me to get my lisence (October 16th I think), when I've only had roughly four "sessions" of driving in my year of having my permit. Heck, I've only driven residential roads for the most part, and the first time, FIRST TIME I drove, I was thrown out onto the express way by my dad. No joke! It feels like I just can't talk to him.

All this rushing to get my license by my dad just makes me less confident, and less intent on doing it. It's a mentality of "you need to do it now, because you're SO BEHIND everyone else." Reading the replies here made me feel a little bit better, because I see there are other people out there like me who get their licenses later on in life. And that I'm not quite the idiot or slow learner I feel like I am.

It just makes me wish even more that I had a professional instructor...

Paul, it looks like you got one of those bad instructors, and there's lots of them out there.

For a start, your nervousness on the first or subsequent lessons should be very limited. Your instructor should be breaking down the task into pieces you can manage and then building them up. You should NEVER be in traffic without first having developed a level of competence in all the skills you need so that you are not overly nervous.

All too often a poor instructor will take a student out onto busy streets without adequate preparation and then blame the student when things go wrong. If things DO go wrong it is invariably the instructors fault.

And what's all this about memorizing the test route? It's a major part of the examiner's job to communicate clearly what you are to do next. If you are properly prepared you won't mind where you go.

I am 42 years old. 13 years ago, I took 30 hours of driving lessons. It was sheer hell! I was always very nervous to the point of being terrified. I sweated profusely in the air-conditioned car! I could not change gears smoothly. I could not remember the routes I needed to learn for the test. My driving instructor kept getting furious at my 'repeated mistakes'. He even ordered me to pull over just to give me a proper shelling!

I gave up and didn't drive since. Last year, I learnt that I am 'dyslexic'. It simply means that I have difficulty concentrating. (That would explain why I have been fluncking exams all my life)! I leant driving again on a very small, automatic tranmission car. It was much easier to drive. It helped a lot because I only needed to concentrate on the steering, gas and brakes. I also learnt the test routes by counting traffic lights (eg. Route 1: at the first traffic light, turn left, then right, right, left , right, right, etc)!

Eventually, I was so confident of driving that I began driving a bigger, manual transmission car. After getting used to it, I took my test and passed on my first attempt!

Today I feel like the king of the road!

Lisa and Jenny DON'T GIVE UP.
It may take you a while but,some people take a long time to learn.
Don't compare yourself with the people you may know or have heard about learning really quickly with no problems. Many people do take time to learn,you don't hear much about the ones that struggle.
I am on about lesson 33 and I know I am going to need a lot more.
I found the driving discs for the computer helped build my confidence and I haven't given up (though my last lesson was awful).
It will eventually sink in it's all about confidence,and you have to build it up,you have to belive you can drive,once you feel you can you will be more relaxed and make fewer mistakes ,if you are nervous it makes your mind go blank.
GOOD LUCK

I've had 15 lessons, and i still cant remember the controls, when i get to a junction i go blank. should i give up?

I crashed the car on my second lesson into a wall,no one was hurt and the car just had scratches. my instructor just said he wasnt sure if he should of grabbed the wheel or pressed the break, and so did neither :( I carried on having lessons with this instructor, but felt i was getting knowhere,plus lost confidence in him,also i was just so nervous about even starting the car in case i crashed again. ive since changed instructors, but im still really nervous, my firs lesson with my new instructor went well and i went out on the road for the first time on my second lesson with him, ive just had my 3rd lesson with him today after a 2 week break and ive forgotten everything, i stalled the car about 3 times and once at a junction, then i started to panic about starting the car. i just dont know if i should carry on driving

im doing a 2o hour intensive driving course,ive just had my first 2 hour lesson,i felt quite nervous at the start but later i really got into it,im looking forward to my lesson on monday,i have realised that im in charge of the car not the other way around,its all about feeling confident and making the right decisions on the road. sometimes its better just to get stuck in rather than worrying about it. i am lovig the tips on this page they have helped me loads and it makes you realise everyone has their issues about driving not just me.good luck everyone

My high school driver's ed teacher was horribly mean and condescending. He screamed at me for the most silly things (seriously!) Once screamed at me for not slowing down for a yellow light that was 2 blocks away. No joke. Yet he allowed the male student to speed, run stop signs, etc. while they chatted about football. Nice, huh?
Scared me out of driving. I never got my license! I am now 28 and feel ready to drive so I just started taking lessons.
I think the biggest thing to remember is that don't drive unless your feel comfortable and ready. Don't force yourself to just because everyone else seems to do it... there are a lot more people that don't drive than you'd think!

Hello Nel,A new instructor might be the fresh start you need,I feel totally different and so much more relaxed with my new instructor.
I am not sure I am going to stay with him (for various reasons)but for the moment I am a lot more relaxed and haven't felt blind panic like I did with my previous instructor.
He kept dwelling on my mistakes,I knew I had made a mistake and didn't need a ten minute lecture on them.
It might take you longer to learn but that doesn't mean you won't learn to drive.
Everyone is different and It may well be a steep learning curve,don't be disheartened,it was very upsetting when my previous instructor lost faith in me and compared me to other students,I decided to leave him and I was extremely upset as I thought I would never learn to drive,a few days feeling devestated later I decided to find another instructor and continue,giving myself a couple of weeks break.
I had a 1 1/2 hr lesson tonight in the rush hour and it didn't feel that bad,my progress is slow but it's still progress.
I used to go scarlet in the face pour of sweat and clench the steering wheel in absolute fear,With my new instructor I have had three 1.5hr lessons in heavy traffic ,roundabouts ect and not felt like that once.
Good luck with your new instructor,let us know how you get on.

Hi Alice, I felt like you as well. I couldn't seem to relax. The lessons always started well in the beginning but then I'd make a mistake and it all went down hill from there. I began to dread my driving lessons and was more interested in when the lesson was over than the actual lesson itself. I had problems with changing gears, stopping and turning at junctions. I always came out of my lessons feeling like a idiot and a failure. Then my driving told me something along the lines of, at least I could get a chauffeur, real confidence boost!! So I gave up on driving. Now a year and a half later I'm about to have my first lesson since I stopped and I'm panicing just thinking about it.

I had a two hour lesson on Monday and my instructor threw me in at the deep end driving in the busiest traffic I have ever been in ,with loads or roundabouts,pedestrian crossings and pedestrians under the influence,in an area I have no previous experience of. I survived,didn't feel too nervous and definitly not the sheer panic I have previously felt.
That said I am not too sure about the instructor,who seemed overtly laid back and chated so much I don't think he was paying enough attention,I am not sure if I got flashed for speeding,Instructor told me to get my speed up and then told me "oh you are going too fast,I was too busy chatting"(him not me)someone got flashed by a camera,I am a bit concerned as he said "I wonder who got flashed".
I have another lesson on Monday.
Thank you Walter H for your comments,even if it doesn't work out with this instructor ,I intend to keep going.

Good Luck alice

I haven't given up and have a lesson in a couple of minutes with a new instructor.

ive had roughly about 40 lessons i thought i was getting the hang of it my driving instructor kept saying if this next lessons good ill let u book ur test saing its all about consistancy but then hed say i never done as well as he hoped an i needed more lessons ive since left my driving instructor an had 2 lessons with a different 1 but i carnt get the hang of his car his is petrol an im used to diesel but i carnt get the hang of it i wanna drive as i have 3 kids anthings would be so must easier but on the hand i wanna give up as my confidence has been knocked so many times im insured on my boyfriends car but carnt face driving again an just feel like giving up what should i do? i've drove in all kinds of conditions but just feel like a failure

Linda, it looks like your trying to drive but you haven't really properly learned any of the different things that go to make up driving. For example, if you are properly trained in changing lanes then it doesn't matter if there's 1 lane or 4, or whether its on a back road or a freeway.
But if you're on a freeway, there's other skills you should have learned before going out there

Walter H. thank you for the tips on driving. I havent tried using the pylons only because I have none. But I have been practicing as much as I can. Been driving around the neighborhoods and back roads. Im still scared to drive in traffic. I drove home from work one day and it freaked me out I was in tears. I had to cross over 4 lanes then turn at the light. I cant bring myself to drive home again. Should I try it again or give myself more time? How long is it going to take me before I feel comfortable driving? I still have to practice my turns. How do I get over the fear to drive in low traffic driving through an intersection. I can deal with back roads to the store except in the parking lots where theres people or parked cars. But going through intersections reall terrify me. What should I do?

For Alice and Linda -

In 20 years as an instructor I never let anyone give up unless there was some definite physical or psychological liability. Eventually, everyone learned.

If you are nervous it's probably because you have not prepared thoroughly for what you are trying to do. For example, if you feel uncomfortable about using the gas pedal you should NEVER be in traffic. Driving is learned a little bit at a time, so you master each part before going on to the next. Lot's of instructors don't know how to do that so they get frustrated as well.

Linda, you should find a large parking lot and set up pylons. Then really put the car through its paces before you go on the street again.

Alice, the panicking is a real problem. You need to practice quick reactions with the accelerator, brake and steering before getting into too much traffic

Many beginners get into trouble because they go into traffic before really mastering the coordination of hands and feet -- try some braking-while-steering exercises.

I am 46 and just got my lerners permit. Driving has always terrified me and I dont think I can do it well. Today was my first driving lesson with my boyfriend. Im having problems with turning and keeping the gas pedal from going up & down. I almost went through a stop sign until my boyfriend told me to stop. It scared me and now I dont want to drive because Im not paying attention. My daughter tells me I need to get out in traffic and learn, I am so terrified to do that. I keep telling her Im not ready. What should I do? I just want to give up..

I am on lesson 26 and I am scared stiff ,I cannot relax and I am about to give up.
I can drive the car but in traffic I get nervous sweat and go scarlet.
I don't know what to do ,I don't want to give up at 35yrs old I think If I don't do it now I never will.
I drive great for a while make a mistake and panic.
Is it just me should I persevere or give up.
I have made progress but it might take me loads more lessons only to find it's a waste of time.

Im on my 6th lesson now and i am getting better every lesson and my instructor said ill pass in no time atall. my first two lessons i was very nervous before my lessons but as soon as i step in the car and was driving it all went away. i am determined to pass because i have twins! and find it hard to get around. every one should go at your own pase it will take some longer than others and practice is the key to learning any new skill.

Anna writes:
I have just had my tenth lesson and i feel things should start to be clicking into place now but they just aren't. i find my instructor getting a bit frustrated because she is constantly repeating herself so i am starting to dread my lessons. i panic mainly when it comes to stopping the car and reducing the gears. does anybody else feel this way or is it just me?

Maybe you need a new insturctor because they shouldn't be getting mad at you it is there job to help you. I had seven lessons before I passed the road test. What you need to do is practice in between lessons ask someone to take you out driving so you can work on what u learned. The more practice you have the better you'll become the more comfortable you well feel behind the wheel.

Sheena I use to be that way to but then I had driving lessons and it gave me a lot of confidence. I learned to focous on what I was doing but at the same time allowing myself to beaware of what is going on around me. You think your closer to other cars but your really not. The more you practice the better you become the more comfortable you'll become.

Sheena, concentrate on what you want to do, not the problems. Be aware of them but not to the point of distraction.

I'm really nervous about driving, nervous aboutthe cars coming the apposite of me. My hands get really sweaty, my heart starts beating real fast. And its my first time in awhile driving. I have my drivers permint, a year and a half ago, but I'm still terrified of driving and I'm 22yrs old. I know that I have to drive to get to work but whay should I do?

Hello, i have been trying to learn how to drive and im having trouble with turning left and right. Does anyone have any advice i could use?

AS an instructor I used to give students a test in which I would write as they drove. They usually thought I was writing down mistakes and got distracted and unnerved. It was good preparation for the test because examiners have to write. They need to get their paperwork done and note points about the test. It would sometimes cause good drivers to fail for psychological reasons to testing people this way helped with the test.

All of Pa instructors are not like that I'm 18 and I have had my lisence for awhile. My instructor was friendly he just sat back and enjoyed the ride. You shouldn't be worrying about the instructor while your taking your road test you should be focused on what your doing. I don't know what part of PA you live in but if you live in the Pittsburgh area you should try taking your road test in Penn Hills it is really easy. I also know someone who was 45 when recived their liscence and they are a wonderful driver.

I am 50-something and do not have a drivers license yet.I have driven to a small degree but no expressway experience or such.I have scheduled to take the road test many times. Ifailed twice for 1 rolling stop. But the reason I have not returned is becuase of the instructors. In pa, they read you the riot act about what they can and cannot do and say to you.Also I hate having someone sitting next to me making faces and marking things down,this puts me in a different state of mind . What do I do?

Joy is right if you think you will make a mistake you will relax. If your tense ur muscles will be and that can cause u to make mistakes. Maybe you need a couple more lesson and tell you instructor how you feel he or she should be working on your confidence.

I was the same way you have to have confidence in yourself once start to doubt yourself that's when mistakes happen. If your instructor said you were good then what is the problem? I think you are afraid of something happening if you feel this way you don't need to be driving especaily with kids. Once you get over this you will become a better driver. I was the same way but I was 16 when I started to drive now I am 18 and I am a good driver you could be too.

i started driving couple months ago, was doin great, had couple of lessons and instructor said i was good but for some reason now im just too nervous to drive, husband bought me a car and now it just sits outside! have 3 kids and just wish i could get the nerve to get back into the car and go, would be great just to bring kids away 4 the day, but im afraid il get too nervous and make mistakes. any advice?

If you have a good instructor you will not be nervous because you will master driving one bit at a time ... e.g. learning to get the car moving away smoothly, and then learning to stop smoothly. When you are comfortable with that you move on to something else such as checking traffic, signalling, checking mirrors and then moving away smoothly.

A little bit nervous is OK but anytime you get veyr nervous its because your instructor screwed up.

i have just started driving lessons i am 42yrs old and never really wanted to drive before, but i need a licence because i want to go for a new job, but i dont know how i am going to get through the test because i get so nervous i tremble and i stutter when i get so nervous, anybody got any suggestions.

Today was my fifth driving lesson the first day i did ok with the turns however now i suck i cannot keep the car straight i am truely ready to give up and say to hell with driving

i want learn how to drive

im learning to drive in Germany and im finding it quite difficult.The Germany theory test is so much more intense than the UK one and i feel as though im never going to do it. Someone said to me that (on average) the amount of driving lessons they'd need is their age plus 10. Anyone else heard that?

I finally took the road test after getting seven lessons and passed once you get it you have it!

Im 17 and so far i have had around 30 hours of lessons, i really struggled at first , but the last 5 lessons or so i have really got the hang of it, so if anyone feels thay are struggling at first just stick with it, i also find that having 2 hour lessons really helps cause after an hour you are just starting to get into it.

Does the hand over hand method really work?

I had my first driving lesson the other day and we did a lot with turning and he had me use the hand over hand method and I find that hard to do especially when making right turns .

I found that you really only need around six lessons to pass the driving test as long as you can do the basics you will do fine such as stoppin,turning,and speed control,also parellel parking. So the first to lesson should work on turning down hill up hill and the rest will have to do with thing to get you ready for the test.

every i start the learning process i drop out, this year is my resolution beside i have no choice , i moved to georgia where u could'nt have a life without driving i feel like prisonnier in my own home, i'm gonna take only 8 lessons because i spend too much money already....any good advise.

Kelly,are you driving a manual shift. That can cause this problem. Sometimes the tension in muscles is great in the beginning and the muscles get fatigued. Later they will grow into the job and become fine tuned.

If you're very tense when you're learning it means you're attempting something you haven't been prepared for. A good driving instructor won't let it go that far.

I am really nervous about driving when I drive my left leg starst to shake. I fell like I will never get the hang of it. The thing that I worry about the most is hitting other cars.

My advice to everyone reading these articles and posts is, as a driving instructor and a fellow human being, do not short change yourself by not taking some formal training with a reputable driving school in your area, so that you gain proper understanding of rules of the road, learn how to properly and confidently operate a motor vehicle and become more competent in whatever traffic situation you may come upon. There are many ways of learning anything, however, there are proper ways and bad ways. It is your pick, I guess.

Nina, that will come with confidance. I was having the same problem with roundabouts but im fine now. You know what to do but dont trust yourself to act on decisions. Once you have the confidance and trust yourself you will be fine. Comes with time and and practice :-)

i'm learning driving for the last eight months.i'm driving ok but still i'm feeling nervous in changing lanes.
i'm learning from my husband,we always drive with kids coz no one is here to look after.what should i do.

i feel ashamed have not started driving and am scared to start

Started learning about 4 months ago and must have had about 20 lessons now. My confidance has come on loads since my first 10 lessons and I feel alot more in control. The main problems im having at the moment are roundabouts or when there is traffic and busy junctions. I occassionally release the clutch too quickly as well. Remember everyone is differant and there alot of skills you need to master to learn to drive - I have seen problems people have posted on here that I have never had problems with yet I bet theres things I still struggle with that some of you will master very quickly It still feels like ive got a long way to go but when I think of how I progressed since I started im more than ever determined to get there and sure I will. To anyone who has just started just hang in there! It does get easier and alot of it comes with confidance and when you stop feeling afraid in certain sitchuations.

I get really nervous if my dad i in the car.So nervous that I am aware he is nervous,and as a result make fatal mistakes.Hoewever when I drive alone I feel much better,and drive better.

I used a really cool website to help me practice to get my G1 in Ontario...but I think they have may other provinces as well...I would highly recommend www.learnersprep.com

It really helped my confidence when I took the test.

I haven't yet learned how to drive myself but a friend of mine's told me that in order to learn the basics of drving, meaning that you learn how get from one place to another in normal road conditions, it'll take about two weeks. However, in order to get used to highway/expressway driving, and to get to the point whre driving becomes second nature, it could take you around two months.
The best way to go is to practice driving in all sorts of conditions. If you live in area subject to extreme weather, then it's a good idea to get used to driving in snow, sleet, rain, and etc.

I HAVE FAILED MY LICENCE TWICE BEFORE IN MY HOME COUNTRY,NOW IM IN THE USA AND I HAVE TO START DRIVING,I"M SO PARINOID ABOUT THE BUSY STREETS ASWELL AS DRIVING ON THE OPPPSITE SIDE OF THE ROAD,WHAT CAN I DO?

I had my first class today, and it was very interesting. The driver drove to a less busy road and instructed me on how to start the car. I did and drove from there on for two and a half hours. l drove for a quarter of an hour on the busy road. Ofcourse l was scared each time a car was coming in the opposite direction, but he keep encouraging me to have courage. It was so funny when l look up and saw a hill infront of him and asked him who was going to climb it because l was afriad. l did not realize when l climbed it. lt was only after l was asking him where was the hill that l realized l had done it. l need to go on learning and l need tips to. CHAWO

this is my second lesson out of eight , i am learning to keep the vehicle straight and learning to turn i am having problem turning and when i go more 20 mph i get nervous and lose control of the car is that normal.

I have a dumb question. I went driving for the first time tonight, and it was a total of 5 minutes before the person i was driving with had had enough. Is that normal, or do I just suck at driving? I mean it was 1 in the morning, and i'm in someone else's car and we were in a parking lot, but it wasn't an empty one.

I just don't want to give up on driving period, but how am i supposed to understand what to do when it takes less than five minutes for me to almost-crash...Any ideas?

Hi, im 17 yrs old, i want to learn driving ,my course is AUTOMOTIVE Driving 2yrs,i dont have any idea about driving..is that ok to learn driving atm...

Practice makes perfect is true because if you don't it is going to cost you a lot of money.

if you really struggling learning to drive, all you need to do is practice,practice,practice..i found out that you can't just depend on the driving instructor. you have to practice every day!

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Zed learned to drive the way our grandparents did, just get in and do it. It works. I believe most people can learn to drive on their own in less than an hour. b

But that's just learning to start, steer, stop. the hardest thing about driving is not learning the rules or how to control the car. It's learning how to behave in all the different situations and building habits.

That last one is the real toughie. A good driving instructor (if you are lucky enough to find one) will help a lot but really it's up to you and the people who are in the car with you the most.

BTW - there's one driving school you should avoid as much as possible -- the "school of hard knocks."

I've never taken any lessons. One night, at around 2am, i decided to take my dads car out (this is not legal so dont do it)... and i felt confident enough to drive in the highway at speed of about 100 km/h...

and that day i took my dads car to school. surprisingly, i was able to parallel park.

and about 2 months ago when i went driving with my dad, i was too nervous and didnt know if i can drive over 20km/h.

my point is, when ur ready to drive, ull know it. it'll just hit u one day. all u need is the confidence to drive, and ofcourse to learn to drive defensively

June, 8 lessons is not much, especially if you have not driven much previously. Here's a hint based on experience - as much as possible, master changing gears before getting engaged in traffic situations. If you have to think about the gears and shifting everything else will be really difficult. Learnign to drive is like building a house. You must build the foundations well and have confidence in them.

Check out our article on gearshift driving at http://www.drivers.com/article/909/

I have had 8 driving lessons now and I have gone out to practice for an hour or two with two people and I still dont feel confident changing gears and stopping at roundabouts. Im beginning to give up. Any ideas?

Don't be afraid to back off if you don't feel like you're ready to drive. I was the very last of all my friends (I was in college) to learn. Not surprizingly I've not been involved in any traffic accidents or gotten any tickets/warnings. Be smart!

we had to be very careful

driving needs alot of concertration.